Vincent chose the "fanciest" doughnut and showed it to us, beaming.
It is a very pretty doughnut.
I don't give a hot goldarn if my son wants to eat something fancy and pink. What I want to know, though, is how to prepare him for a world that believes that certain foods are gendered and will respond to such choices with derision.
*I have a vague feeling I ought to pseudonymize my children. Something to do with safety... ?